Message In Stanza

Poetry and Musings

Running To Save Novels

So is anxiety productive or counterproductive? Do the sweaty palms and increased heart rate help you move into action or just freeze your call to action?

In a nutshell, I don’t believe the answer is black and white. I can’t give a definitive yes or no.

When you an increased adrenaline rush (anxiety manifested) you will dash into a house and save a life. It’s our instrintual makeup.

Psychology is correct in the sense that anxiety can be debilitating but because of our ancient DNA it can be used to survive. Are you ever anxious when you are angry with someone in, let’s say, a restaurant but you can’t show your anxiety? I believe anger can be displayed as anxiety. So what do you do? You take 5 minutes to yourself in the restroom, take a deep breath, and accept how you are feeling. If you weren’t angry you wouldn’t be human. I am not saying, let’s be angry and anxious around everyone but I am saying be true to how you feel. That’s where you will be more successful because you are real with yourself.

Society is all about pretend you are ok and bottling up your emotions. It catches me off guard but I love it when I ask someone how they are doing and they shrug their shoulders and say, “It could be better.” We shouldn’t dump on problems on people but it’s important to speak the truth in a gentle way so we can come to terms to how we are really feeling, you know?

In a less exaggerated example, if all of a sudden, if I lose all my work on a poem I am writing on WordPress and it doesn’t save and I don’t have a backup, I’ll become anxious. But maybe next time because of the anxiety, I’ll make sure to save it or have a backup because I hated that feeling of anxiety in the past.

So anxiety can be useful to help us cope and prepare us to deal with more challenging problems later on, in my opinion. But when is anxiety counterproductive? When you worry to the point of a lack of trust in God’s sovereignty and love. It’s natural to go to the grieving process when someone dies or a healing process of emotional hurts from your past. But when anxiety turns into depression, that’s never God’s will for your life. Sometimes it’s better to ask HOW can I get through this instead of WHY did this happen. Just some food for thought today.

What are your thoughts on this piece?

4 thoughts on “Anxiety: Good or Bad?

  1. Red Letters says:

    Very informative post. I suffered with anxiety for a long time and I think I’d struggle to see it as a good thing to be honest. I hated the way the symptoms made me feel and I’d much rather feel chilled and at peace. I think there are some people that thrive on nervous energy though. No two people are the same but for me I’m so glad I’m now free from anxiety. Here’s a post on my experience with anxiety if you’d like to read it. Hayley ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’•
    http://redletters.life/2017/08/10/did-you-not-know-that-i-am-protecting-you-wherever-you-go/

    Liked by 1 person

    1. Thanks for sharing, Hayley. ๐Ÿ˜€ I suffer from anxiety as well. So I get what you are saying. It’s never a pleasant feeling. I just wish more people were understanding to the process of my anxiety. I believe anxiety can be helpful at times in terms of recognizing difficult emotions, if that makes sense. But I totally agree, when you get over the intensity of anxiety you are a lot freer. I’ll be sure to check out your post sometime. Carly ๐Ÿ˜€

      Liked by 1 person

      1. Red Letters says:

        Yes, I completely understand what you’re saying and yes, I think there definitely is a purpose it. I think its great that you’re really trying to understand it and break it down rather than fear it. Keep up the great work with the posts!
        Hayley ๐Ÿ˜Š

        Liked by 1 person

      2. Thank you, Hayley! ๐Ÿ˜€

        Liked by 1 person

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

%d bloggers like this: